Understanding gender has become even more important as debates on gender identity, equality and neutrality have become dominant headlines on platforms that discuss social and cultural issues. The basic external biological or sex characteristic of masculinity and femininity female are no longer sufficient determinants of gender descriptions and roles.
Science has confirmed in so many ways that within every individual are male and female properties. What becomes dominant depends on hormonal patterns or internal feelings of the individual, more than the appearance of a male or female sex organ. Thus, you may see a man exhibiting somewhat female characteristics and a woman exhibiting the reverse. As such, per the arguments, without granting the freedoms to cross gender barriers, we would have say, a man with dominantly female hormonalcharacteristics trapped in male social roles and expectations because of the mere physical appearanceof a male body. Such individuals become confused and in several cases are unable to operate freely. In addition, strict definitions on how people should express as males and females has psychological effects on the individual. Many societies and cultures, for instance, forbid or proscribe men from crying because it is the male character to be strong and firm; and almost unemotional. This stops many men from expressing their emotions and the psychological blockimpacts their lives in unwholesome ways.
Again, the cultural outcomes of gender identity is that there is a bias against women in terms of gender differences. What this is generating is a situation where women are fighting for gender equality, where some women seek to be as dominant and aggressive as men, which may be the case for some women with more male hormonal or biological characteristics. It however does not translate into the general feminine character, and as such we would always find women who are for and many who are against the stance of feminists. Raw aggressiveness is a dominant male character. The logical argument is that you do not seek to become like men to be equal to men. When we understanding our gender, then we would accept our unique and dominant gender character and interests and seek how society can place equal value on our different gender expressions, rather than us seeking to be like or do things like the opposite. The focus will be on equal respect or value (equity) rather than equality.
This course seeks to open participants to how our biology influences our behavior; and each of us is a dual being – male and female – in our composition. A man is not always a man – a man may have female characteristics and to operate in a more wholesome manner, one needs to first appreciate and accept who and what he or she is. We then should be able to employ our gender properties as and when necessary without the fear of social acceptability, but together shape a more fluid society while creating checks and balances against extremism
We intend also to open the participants’ eyes to how certain social conventions originated from our gender behaviours as driven by our biology. The way forward in relationship would now be how to identify and accept what we are in our gender; how we express or experience our gender; work with how each partner in the relationship operates as a gender being, and how together they can cooperate for greater outcomes. All in all, we are looking to a society that accepts people for what they are, without restrictions and discrimination while as individuals we seek to channel our gender-originated behavior in more productive and life-enhancing ways
Finally, when we understand how we express or operate as gender beings, we would refrain from labeling others wrongly because of the way they express . A young man with a feminine voice or who exhibit certain female gender behaviours may not necessarily be sexually attracted to a man. Homosexuality is a lifestyle choice that is not the same as one’s gender expression, though may be influenced by gender identity.
The knowledge of what we are as Gender beings is essential for balance in the individual, harmony in their relationships and peace in our world. Get ready to explore, experience and celebrate who you are as a gender being.
Essential Life Education is a Revolutionary approach to Self-Discovery, Relationships and Total Life Mastery. It awakens you to who and what you are in your Gender, Persona and Senses (GPS); making it easy to unleash your potentials and optimize your life.
Awakening to your GPS enables you to navigate successfully in life and to understand why you and others are the way you are and do the things you do.
Your deepest desire is to experience inner peace for yourself and to have a world that promotes joy and harmony for your children and the future generations. To the contrary, the world is going in the direction of self-destruction and we have enough nuclear weapons to wipe out the entire human race in minutes. And there seems to be no hope for a possible peace in future; but there is hope, it is called Essential Life Education.
The Vision of civilization is to provide humanity with the amenities for our comfort and advancement. Advances in science and technology have improved the quality of life in many societies. In as much as we have made great strides in improving our material comfort, we are confronted with serious collateral damages to our environment and social fabric. We have become deviants in our own environment by degrading the very ecosystem on which we depend for our survival.
The current knowledge system has made us more isolated. We have bigger and better houses but more broken homes. We have more sophisticated means of communication, but we less understand one another. We have become more suspicious of each other. Religion has spread far and wide and instead of bringing people together, it has rather succeeded in adding to the segregations of humanity, fuelling suspicion, hate, avarice among people and it has been responsible for a majority of the wars in the world. All these tell us that we have missed the mark of holistic civilization.
With the passing of time, our expectation to develop better relationships with each other for greater joy and community living, remain a fleeting illusion. On the contrary, we increasingly experience internal and external conflicts of all shades. World peace would be nothing but a thin veneer unless it stems from an international community of people who are at peace with themselves. This can only be possible when we have attained some level of understanding and discipline over our minds and emotions.
Unlike our education in science and technology, there is no systematic education on Self Knowledge or training for our mental and spiritual well-being. Even raising of precious human children is mere experimentation. Presently, our school systems do not teach children how to overcome fears or create joy, for instance. A young teenager becomes pregnant and gives birth without any knowledge on how to raise a child. However, to be wholesome, material development must essentially go hand in hand with our mental and emotional development.
This is your invitation to join a world-wide advocacy campaign to awaken the world to what it needs to experience the peace we have been craving and praying for. It is time for freedom with responsibility, when we would no longer require restrictive laws that chain us in all ways. It is sometimes amazing how we have tied ourselves up in prison just because we do not have the knowledge of the self for us to be free beings and expand our inner potentials.
Soul Processing is the spiritual mind science for the restoration of the full God potential and spiritual possibilities in man.
Soul Processing provides two things:
- Removal of evil
- Activation of spiritual abilities
The premise of Soul Processing is that whatever a man can confront, he can handle. In Soul Processing, you are led or you lead yourself to confront the cud pictures and analyse them to a constructive learning. Every pain holds a rich learning. Until the learning is realised, the pain repeats itself. Life is sworn to itself, as you, that it will expand the Intelligence that it is, and this can never be contradicted. When the pain is confronted and the learning is absorbed, the evil (fear, hate, grief or whatever) in it is dissolved. Through a gentle process of reliving, present pains are uncovered and reduced, opening us to the root or primary causes of the pain. When the primary cause of the pain is removed, the entire tree of the pain and its effects are removed and the individual becomes free. This process is known as Cud Processing; it is the processing or chewing and removal of the Cud.
The second part of Soul Processing is the activation of spiritual abilities. This is known as Ability Processing. It is achieved by re-stimulating the pictures of your achievement, successes and your moments of intelligent Christ-like deeds. By focusing on what is divine in you, you expand it.
When a man is free of what stimulates him or her into error, and activates all or a greater portion of his or her God abilities, he or she lives as an expanded field of Intelligence. He or she is then in full spiritual dominion as he or she was meant to be.
The practice of returning to a past event and recounting it in present or present continuous tense as though the event is happening in Present Time.
Absolute Life Processing
An advanced spiritual process that empowers Liberatee to transcend the fear of death by having a meaningful, purposeful life. It invites Liberatee to start living fully now. It can stimulate the Liberatee to find his or her purpose.
This processing may be used to help one identify his or her purpose in life and have meaning to things done in life. The processing may also be used to cleanse the entire life of a Liberatee.
Life is about our soul expansion. When the Bible told us in Genesis 1: 28, “Be ye fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it, and have dominion over life, it was demanding of us to expand our soul.”
The command to use is:
A time comes, and we call it death, when you realize that nothing in this world is your, except what you are. What are you?
The important thing in life is to know what we are and expand it. Often, people’s attention is on what they have and what they are is totally ignored.